Hard To Get - The Timeless Art of Conquering His Heart

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How To Get Chased By Your Man -
Not the Other Way Around!

Find Out How To Maintain Your Mystery With Him, and Create Lasting Desire By Understanding Centuries-Old Secrets of Human Nature

Listen To This Special Message About Playing Hard To Get:

No Matter What Men Say....

No matter what they tell you, men love it when you drive them crazy. They love it!

Men feel very much alive when they are crazy with passion and interest for a woman who rivets their attention.

One way to get a man's attention is to do LESS, not more.

Does "hard to get" increase the intensity? You bet it does.

For example, many of us have an old flame who stays in our minds.

One reason that person stays in our minds is because we don't HAVE that person.

They're extremely HARD TO GET.

That affects how much you THINK about them and want them.

It intensifies the intensity. And falling in love is all about intensity!

"Hard To Get" is for the fearless, because the idea of "Hard to Get" is controversial.

It's also a well-understood fact of simple human nature.

Some people hear this phrase and automatically think it means being "manipulative" - resorting to "tricks" to "get a man."

First - who says you need to "get a man"? You don't. You need to "get" yourself - and know that if a man "gets" you, then he's a lucky bloke indeed.

Easy equals desperate. Easy equals not waiting for what is special. Easy means not being okay with being on your own.

Some women say, "With a really great man, I shouldn't need to play games."

We say, "Great men love a challenge. When they're married to you, they'll cherish you all the more because you were hard to get."

Truer words were never spoken.

Sometimes, a woman knows that the way she came across - in a first meeting - with a guy she liked WAS NOT the way she really wanted - and was not the true, confident HER. Maybe out of nerves, she came across a little needy or insecure. Only the slightest fine-tuning could have made a big difference.

Some women say, "I don't have the energy to work on how I come across to men."

We say, "Most worthwhile things take energy and effort. The results are worth it."

Some MEN say, "I don't want a woman who plays games."

We say, "Yeah, right. What men think they want and what they really want are usually two different things! It's just that some women are "hard to get" for them - naturally.

Some women say, "I just don't like the whole idea of playing hard to get."

We say, "Consider the alternative. It's not a pretty picture. Not being hard to get means that you get to Emotional First Base long before he does. When he realizes that you are there before him - he will start backing away from you. This causes a lot of broken hearts."

Hard To Get means you are in control - and you're a lot more likely to get the man you want and to have a better relationship with him in the long run.

"How true - how true! When I'm being mysterious and not pouring out my emotional needs, I have total control. I hate to say it, but the more I'm mysterious, the more he wants to be with me." -- Lisa

Hard to Get is a time-honored principle for a reason - it has helped hundreds of thousands of women to learn the meaning of valuing themselves and using self-restraint and self-discipline when some of their strongest urges could have resulted in actions that would have NOT worked in their best interests in the long run.

Make no mistake about it. Love is a "game" - the most wonderful "game" ever invented. Play to win. Play hard.... to get!

Love is not for the faint of heart. How well we all know that!

The Game... of Love?? Shocking!

Is it "playing a game" with a man when you play hard to get?

Yes! Playing hard to get is definitely one of the games of love (as if you didn't know).

Now let me ask you a question.

When did games get such a bad name?

Everyone loves games; from football to cards. Games are one of life's chief methods of entertainment.

Why are games okay when it comes to sports and backgammon, but not okay when it comes to romance?

"Because love is not a game!" some say. "How DARE you encourage anyone to play games of the heart!!"

Not True! Love IS a game - the most fun game ever invented - and it has always been a game. You've been involved, whether you knew it or not!

The Pursuit of Love
How To Get Chased By Men

Men love pursuit - and pursuit must be difficult. This class is chock-full of advice on HOW to be pursued by men, and why men love to pursue women. Men love it when you make it difficult to win you.

The one being pursued is the one with the most power.

Hard To Get brings out the best in men

What men think about women who chase them - and why you never want to chase any man

Why pursuing him will push him away

How to handle men who open up and shut down

How to apply "the whip of indifference"!

Why you have to hold back so he can come to you.

Human Nature 101

It helps to work along with nature - instead of trying to fight against it!

"Hard to Get" is a fundamental truth of human nature. That is one of the themes we're talking about in this class. "Hard to Get" is for the smart woman who doesn't mind shaking things up!

Playing Hard to Get Works! The Hard-To-Get mindset gives you an edge.

Love should be playful! Being playful is one of the most important elements of "Hard to Get"!

What men really think about women who are Hard To Get

Why you can get comfortable on that pedestal - and why this is so important

Being Hard To Get raises your value in his eyes.

The one way you should NOT treat a man!

Maintaining Your Mystery with Men

This is one of the greatest challenges in a relationship - how do you become intimate, and yet, still maintain your mystery and keep him interested? Here's how to enhance your confidence and make it easier than you may have ever considered.

"The Serious Talk" - When You Want To Know Where Your Relationship Is Going"!

Playing Hard to Get Means You Never Initiate the Serious Talk

Ultimatums - the Close Cousin of the Serious Talk

But I Need To Know Where Things Stand!

Biological Clock-Watchers: The Meter is Running

"But If I Never Have a Serious Talk With Him, He May Never Commit!"

The Boiling Point - "I Don't Care What Happens"

How To Recover From the Serious Talk

"Beauty and the Frump"

We don't want to be loved for our looks or to lose out to another woman because of looks. How to understand how this fits in the puzzle of relationships, and what is and isn't important.

"How To Get Rid of the Other Woman" (Piece of Cake)

Here are the most effective ways to ward off the other woman. Don't compete with her - handle her. "Piece of Cake!"

Can you triumph over a female threat to your relationship? Is there someone who intrudes on your happy world with him? This class will provide unforgettable ways to handle any woman wishes YOUR man belonged to HER.

This is Mimi Tanner's Most Controversial Program

No holds barred, no pretend indignation here - let's talk about Human Nature and how it works with every one of us, each and every day - especially when it comes to your love life.

"Mimi Tanner is simply one of the best when it comes to writing to women on the art of finding and keeping a great man. She has become well-known on a global scale in a relatively short time. Why? Because she covers highly in-demand subjects with a flair and disarming friendliness that is unequalled."

Relationship Coaches Scot and Emily McKay
Hosts of "X and Y on the Fly" Podcasts
www.deservewhatyouwant.com

My name is Mimi Tanner, the author of many books on relationships. I have literally spent a lifetime studying the subject of MEN - and WOMEN - everything from flirting to attracting, chasing, being chased, falling in love, and why men and women fall in love.

I know what it takes to win a man's heart, and to win it back - and my advice has worked for literally thousands of women who write me every day to tell me about it. I hope you will read my daily email column and find out why so many women have learned so much about how to handle the men in their life - and even marry their Mr. Right, too - when the time is right.

Some people approach love with so many expectations and so much seriousness, and yet they wonder why they have one bad experience after another!

FACT - if you're not playing the game of love, you're missing out on all the fun - and so is the love of your life! This is true whether you're single or you've been married for thirty years. If you are in a relationship, or you want to be in a relationship, then you will be served best to get very, very good at the game of love.

"But Mimi, What About 'Manipulation'??"

Many people are against the idea of playing hard to get. They say it's wrong; it's manipulative; it's trickery of the worst order.

First of all, I'm here to show you exactly why that is NOT true.

Second, what those people are really afraid of is that playing hard to get will give you an "unfair advantage." And you know what? It will.

Last time I checked, all was still fair in love and war. I've got news for you - great news, in fact:

There's nothing wrong with playing games when it comes to love - as long as your games are for the benefit of everyone concerned - the benefit right now, and the benefit for the rest of your life - the one you're going to spend together because you're both so in love with each other.

Let the games begin! And when you play the game of love, be sure to play hard to get.

Be Hard To Get - or Easy To Forget

Picture this.

A man meets a woman. He says, "You're a fine-looking woman. I'd like to go out with you and in about a year, we'll get married." She says, "Great! Works for me."

What's wrong with this picture?

Would you watch a movie if this were the plot? Of course not!

Why not? Because it would be BORING!

You wouldn't read a book like that, either. In fact, any book on love, whether it was published last week or 200 years ago - has more of a plot than that!

So why would you want YOUR LOVE LIFE to be boring - when you can create memories and have fun - and still be true to your highest self?

Being Hard To Get in the Right Way

So tell me - how do men perceive you right now?

Are you the girl next door? Are you his friend but you want to be more?

Are you the kind of woman a man loses sleep over, worrying about whether he'll win your heart?

That same man who never calls you back is quite capable of falling head over heels in love with a woman who makes him feel an overwhelming desire to win her. This happens even with guys who say they are "afraid of commitment." Somehow when a certain kind of woman comes along, these guys miraculously lose their fear of commitment because they are so busy trying to get this woman into their lives - determined, in fact.

But what does it take to become that kind of woman in your man's life?

Hard To Get is a private program which speaks to the hearts of thousands of women. It's that kind of program that women love to own and generally don't tell the entire world about it - but they devour the book privately and take its principles to heart.

How do you know when you have won his heart?

When he wants to show you off to his friends.

When he can't wait to bring home to meet his parents.

When he calls you during the day to see how you're doing.

When he does thoughtful things for you - just because.

When other men are around you at a party, he's confident in you, but... keeping his eye on the situation!

It helps to work along with nature - instead of trying to fight against it!

"Hard to Get" is a fundamental truth of human nature. "Hard to Get" is for the smart woman who doesn't mind shaking things up!

Being hard to get is a response to one of the most basic truths of human nature:

Humans love a feeling of accomplishment. We love to work for something valuable and finally obtain it.

We tend to scorn what is handed to us too easily. We rarely appreciate things which come too easily. We value the things which are elusive - harder to reach, harder to find, harder to get.

As humans, we are created to thrive on desire. Here's a newsflash: You can't desire something you already have!

As with many other realities of life, many people are unhappy about this truth of human nature and waste precious energy fighting against it. They regard it with suspicion and even hostility - even though the truth of it stares them in the face every day!

They may as well be fighting against the sun rising and setting, because their discomfort is not going to change the facts of life! There's just no denying it - being hard to get is a fundamental principle of human nature and particularly, romance. It can even be the make-or-break factor at certain crucial times.

Lots of books and articles say that they disagree with being hard to get and "playing games," but then they proceed to tell people to do the exact same things that you do when you're "hard to get"!

By the way, when did "games" get such a bad name? So games are okay when it's checkers, but not okay when it comes to romance? Who came up with that rule? The kind of "games" we're talking about will keep you healthy, happy, and having the time of your life - and so will he.

This theme of human nature has been well known throughout the ages of time. When you can't get something easily - people want it more. Not only that, but the price-tag goes up too. (Check your local market.)

Hard to Get is a time-honored principle for a reason - it has helped hundreds of thousands of women to learn the meaning of valuing themselves and using self-restraint and self-discipline when some of their strongest urges could have resulted in actions that would have NOT worked in their best interests in the long run.

More on "games" in my program "Hard To Get." But make no mistake about it. Love is a game - the most wonderful "game" ever invented. Play to win. Play hard.... to get!

A reader I will call Lucinda agrees with this facet of human nature that "whatever you work for has more value than what you get for free."

She writes:

Hi Mimi,

I suppose the whole thing boils down to a very old principle: whatever you work for has more value (in your mind) than what you get for free.

If you have to court a woman for three months, when you finally sleep with her, it means much more to you than if you slept with her the first night (independently of the objective "quality" of the sex). Something difficult is more meaningful than something easy.

Applied to romance, when the high-maintenance woman makes the man jump through hoops, he's associating her with something valuable, because he has to work so hard for her. Whereas as the non-demanding, "together," low-maintenance woman: well, yeah, she's attractive, but... so what? Why bother?

Hope I'm not overstating my case. ;-)

Best,
Lucinda

A man can't pursue you if you're already his - way too soon, or too easily!

Instead, take lots of time to get to know him... and enjoy the journey instead of focusing on the destination.

Even a minor difference toward being "harder to get" can make a major difference in how your man responds to you.

Hard to get does not mean impossible to get! I'll show you how to enjoy "the chase" and how to be in control of your love life and your future.

Being hard to get means you'll never have to settle for less than the happiness you really want. Discover how the chase will be thrilling and memorable for both of you - with love, respect, fun, and excitement.

Being hard to get means enhancing your mystery, no matter how well he thinks he knows you!

Yes, love is a game. Let the games begin! And when you play the game of love, be sure to play hard to get!

With love,
Mimi Tanner
Author of Hard To Get: The Timeless Art of Conquering His Heart

You go Mimi! I hope these women "get" what you are saying.

You are a potential life preserver for many, Mimi.....I hope they grab the HUGE BUOY OF INFORMATION you throw to them as they flail along in the sea of relationships.......you offer them the ways and means to preserve their precious life, sanity, dignity and INTEGRITY!!!!!!

Fondly,

S. G.

Dear Mimi,

Wanted to give you a thanks for your amazing work. I've purchased almost all of your programs, and today I purchased your "man mistake eraser" guide.

I just want to say, from someone who's read EVERYTHING there is to read about dating/relationships, nothing comes close to this!!!

Finally, a positive out look and an ANSWER on what to ACTUALLY do instead of pages and pages of junk! I'm a huge fan of yours and will continue to support ANY of your work!

What's "Hard To Get" All About?

Exactly How to Be Hard To Get

How To Work With Human Nature Instead of Against It

Why You Shouldn't Act Like He's the One

Why Intensity Matters So Much

What Men Fear that Drives Them Away - and How To Avoid It

The Chase - Why It Matters So Much to Both of You!

Ultimatums (why you'll never need one)

He pursues you - and thinks that it's his idea

Why You Should NEVER Initiate the "Serious Talk" With Any Man