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Hard To Get
Your Personal Guidebook on
How to Play the Game of Love!
by Mimi Tanner, author of Calling Men
and Man Mistake
Eraser
From
the desk of writer Mimi Tanner:
Is it
"playing a game" with a man when you play hard to get?
Yes!
Playing hard to get is definitely one of the
games of love (as if you didn't know).
Now let me
ask you a question.
When did
games get such a bad name?
Everyone loves
games; from football to cards. Games are one of
life's chief methods of entertainment.
Why are
games okay when it comes to sports and backgammon, but
not okay when it comes to romance?
"Because
love is not a game!" some say. "How
DARE you encourage anyone to play games of the heart!!"
Not True! Love
IS a game - the most fun game ever invented - and it
has always been a game. You've been
involved, whether you knew it or not!
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Hi - My name is
Mimi Tanner. Many people know me as the
author of:
¨ "Calling
Men - The Complete Guide to Calling, Emailing, and
Texting the Men You Date"
¨ "Secrets
of Flirting With Men"
¨ "Man
Mistake Eraser"
 and other
writings. I have literally spent a lifetime
studying the subject of MEN - and WOMEN - everything
from flirting to attracting, chasing, being chased,
falling in love, and why men and women fall in love.
I know what it takes to win a man's heart, and to
win it back - and my advice has worked for literally
thousands of women who write me every day to tell me
about it.
Some
people approach love with so many expectations and so
much seriousness, and yet they wonder why they have one
bad experience after another!
So the
first lesson in Hard To Get is to lighten up,
if you happen to be one of the Serious Sad Sacks who
expect your Prince to love you anyway, WARTS and all,
"for yourself" - right now, the right way, and
with no game playing whatsoever!
FACT
- if you're not playing the game of love, you're
missing out on all the fun - and so is the love of your
life! This is true whether you're single or you've been
married for thirty years. If you are in a
relationship, or you want to be in a relationship, then
you will be served best to get very, very good at the
game of love.
"But
Mimi, what about
"manipulation??"
Many
people are against the idea of playing hard to get. They
say it's wrong; it's manipulative; it's trickery of the
worst order.
First of
all, I'm here to show you exactly why that is NOT true.
Second, what
those people are really afraid of is that playing hard to get
will give you an "unfair advantage." And
you know what? It will.
Last time
I checked, all was still fair in love and war. I've got news for
you - great news, in fact:
There's
nothing wrong with playing games when it comes to love -
as long as your games are for the benefit of everyone
concerned - the benefit right now, and the benefit for
the rest of your life - the one you're going to spend
together because you're both so in love with each other.
Let the
games begin! And when you play the game of love, be sure
to play hard to get.
Be
Hard To Get - or Easy To Forget
Picture
this.
A man
meets a woman. He says, "You're a fine-looking
woman. I'd like to go out with you and in about a year,
we'll get married." She says, "Great!
Works for me."
What's
wrong with this picture?
Would you watch a movie if this were the plot? Of
course not!
Why not?
Because it would be BORING!
You
wouldn't read a book like that, either. In fact, any
book on love, whether it was published last week or 200
years ago - has more of a plot than that!
So why
would you want YOUR LOVE LIFE to be boring - when you
can create memories and have fun - and still be true
to your highest self?
Being
Hard To Get in the Right Way
So tell me
- how do men perceive you right now?
Are you
the girl next door? Are you his friend but you
want to be more?
Are you
the kind of woman a man loses sleep over, worrying about
whether he'll win your heart?
That same man who never calls you back is quite capable
of falling head over heels in love with a woman who
makes him feel an overwhelming desire to win her. This
happens even with guys who say they are "afraid of
commitment." Somehow when a certain kind of woman comes
along, these guys miraculously lose their fear of
commitment because they are so busy trying to get this
woman into their lives - determined, in fact.
But what does it take to become that kind of woman in
your man's life?
Hard To Get is a
private program, delivered to your email each month, which speaks
to the hearts of thousands of women. It's that kind of
program that women
love to own and generally don't tell the entire world
about it - but they devour the book privately and take
its principles to heart.
How do you
know when you have won his heart?
¨ When he
wants to show you off to his friends.
¨ When he
can't wait to bring home to meet his parents.
¨ When he
calls you during the day to see how you're doing.
¨ When he
does thoughtful things for you - just because.
¨ When other
men are around you at a party, he's confident in you, but... keeping his eye on the situation!
Perceived Value and the Scarcity Factor
One of the
great lessons of love is known as the scarcity factor.
Plain and simple: people tend to want what they cannot
have!
When things are hard to obtain, they seem more valuable
- to put it mildly.
What if
someone told you that you could buy a 2-year-old Jaguar
for $15,000. What would you think?
You'd
think that there must be something wrong with it. (And
you'd probably be right.)
When you
think of luxury items or designer clothing, what is the
number-one thing that sets them apart? Is it the
workmanship? The quality?
Perhaps -
but far more than that, it's the PRICE. That is
what gets your attention and makes it stand apart from
all the others - it costs more, and it's harder to
obtain. Fewer people will be able to get it - and if you
have it, it's clear that you must have had something
special in order to get it.
But
things are only as valuable as someone thinks.
And the more
rare
something is, the more people think it is worth.
I once searched high and low to find a special,
out-of-print book. It was written in the 1950's
and few people remembered it. I was thrilled to
finally find the book, and paid $150 over the internet
in order to obtain this rare copy.
Only a few weeks later, the very same book was given to me by
a public school librarian who was about to throw it out because no one had checked it
out in at least fifteen years.
Obviously some people think that book is valuable - or
the price would not have been so high - but for
others, it was gathering dust and needed to be
discarded.
It's called "perceived value."
How does this apply to relationships between men and
women?
It really starts on the inside.
If you value yourself, it will show, and others will
value you more, too.
If you value yourself, you will be focused on your own
goals and activities - and less focused every waking
minute on some guy. That automatically makes you
more hard to get.
What's the
opposite of hard to get? It's desperate.
Desperation repels others, and is revealed in a thousand
subtle ways - all of which you need to avoid like the
plague.
I get a lot of email from women who are
spending enormous amounts of time thinking about a guy
in their life, but who are not spending enormous amounts
of time adding value to their own lives by learning and
growing. That is the first step to becoming hard to get.
It's not about being self-absorbed or selfish - it's
really about self-respect. The greatest gift you have is
YOU. What you do with this gift will affect not only
you, but literally thousands of people.
Whether you believe it or not, you already have an
image. People
know you and are aware of you - your presence is known.
Your image is out there. You are somebody already.
Is that
somebody the kind of person who is sought after?
Start today to see yourself as the kind
of woman who makes men lose sleep thinking about you!
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What's "Hard To Get" All About?
¨
Exactly How to Be Hard To Get
¨
How To Work
With Human Nature Instead of Against It
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Why You Shouldn't Act Like He's the One
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Why Intensity Matters So Much
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What Men Fear that Drives Them Away - and How To
Avoid It
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The Chase - Why It Matters So Much to Both of You!
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Ultimatums (why you'll never need one, and Plan B if you DO
need one)
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The "Reverse Ultimatum" - You won't have to say a word to him!
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Men Who Can't Say "I Love You"
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Why You Should NEVER Initiate the "Serious Talk" With Any Man
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Leaving Frumpville
and much, much more!
Here's What You Get Immediately When You Order:
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Class One - "The Serious
Talk" - When You Want To Know Where Your
Relationship Is Going"!
The first class of "Hard To Get"
is called "The Serious Talk - When You Want To
Know Where Your Relationship Is Going"!
Here's what's in "The Serious Talk":
¨ The Serious Talk Defined
¨ Picture of a Serious Talk
¨ What's Behind the Urge to Have
the Serious Talk?
¨ Playing Hard to Get Means You
Never Initiate the Serious Talk
¨ Case History #1 - Sudden,
Unexpected Rejection
¨ Times Change, But the Serious
Talk Endures
¨ The Serious Talk is Not a Cure
¨ How Men Feel About the Serious
Talk
¨ Can a Serious Talk Ever Be
Welcomed by a Man?
¨ If He Has Backed Away, Never Ask
Where Things Stand
¨ Ultimatums - the Close Cousin of
the Serious Talk
¨ He Loves You, or He Loves You Not
¨ Men In Love
¨ How Women Feel About the Serious
Talk
¨ But I Need To Know Where Things
Stand!
¨ Case History #2 - The Timing Was
Wrong, and He Backed Off
¨ But I Don't Want to Waste Time!
¨ "Please Don't Tell Me to Date
More Than One Man at a Time!"
¨ But the Serious Talk is a Matter
of Honesty!
¨ Biological Clock-Watchers: The
Meter is Running
¨ Case History #3 - The Biological
Clock
¨ Are Your Feelings Aligned With
His?
¨ How Long Have You Been Seeing
Him? How Often?
¨ "But This Situation Is
Different!"
¨ "But If I Never Have a Serious
Talk With Him, He
May Never Commit!"
¨ The Boiling Point - I Don't Care
What Happens
¨ Why Some Men Never Commit (What's
His Problem, Anyway?)
¨ Is There Ever A Valid Reason For
an Exception to this Rule?
¨ Case History #4 - Back Together
Again - How Long Should
She Wait Now?
¨ Seeing Things from the Other Side
¨ When Your Intensity and Insight
Get You Nowhere
¨ How To Recover From the Serious
Talk
¨ STEP ONE - How You Will Act
¨ STEP TWO - What You Will and
Won't Say
¨ STEP THREE - How To Handle What
Comes Next
¨ What To Do If Things Stagnate
Again Later
¨ The Serious Talk Should Come From
Him
¨ Playing Hard to Get Works!
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How The Class Works
1. Hard To
Get is a class sent to you in your email.
2.
You will receive 7 Classes - starting today with
"The Serious Talk - When You Want To Ask Him
Where Your Relationship Is Going"!
3.
You
can print out and save each class.
4.
You can order the class by mail in the near
future for a
small extra cost after the class is underway.
5.
Your first class will arrive immediately
in your email - right now as soon as you sign
up. Start having fun finding
out how to make him work hard for your
attention!
6. Then
you'll receive a new class every 30 days for the next 6
months - for a total of 7 classes (plus an unadvertised
bonus)!
Full One-Year Guarantee of Satisfaction
You have One Full Year to test out this material
and see the power you'll have over your love
life.
You'll love it, guaranteed, and it will work for
you - or you can return the material and get a
full refund.
Thousands of women (and men) read Mimi Tanner's
books and programs all over the world. They LOVE
the programs, and they LOVE the results they get
in their love lives!
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Get
"Hard To Get"
the online class by Mimi Tanner
The
first class is delivered to you
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Then, a class
will be delivered to your email
every 30 days,
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all)
"Hard To Get"!
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Hard to get does not mean impossible to get!
I'll show you how to enjoy "the chase" and how
to be in control of your love life and your
future.
Being hard to get means you'll never have to
settle for less than the happiness you really
want. Discover how the chase will be
thrilling and memorable for both of you - with
love, respect, fun, and excitement.
Yes, love is a game. Let the games begin! And
when you play the game of love, be sure to play
hard to get!
With love,
Mimi Tanner
Author of
Calling Men,
Secrets
of Flirting with Men,
Man
Mistake Eraser and more
You
go Mimi! I hope these women "get"
what you are saying.
You are a potential life preserver for many,
Mimi.....I hope they grab the HUGE BUOY OF
INFORMATION you throw to them as they flail along
in the sea of relationships.......you offer them the
ways and means to preserve their precious life,
sanity, dignity and INTEGRITY!!!!!!
Fondly,
S. G.
Dear Mimi,
Wanted to give you a thanks for your amazing work.
I've purchased almost all of your programs, and
today I purchased your "man mistake eraser" guide.
I just want to say, from someone who's read
EVERYTHING there is to read about
dating/relationships,
nothing comes close to this!!!
Finally, a positive out look and an ANSWER on
what to ACTUALLY do instead of pages and pages of
junk! I'm a huge fan of yours and will continue to
support ANY of your work!
L.
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