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Hard To Get
Your Personal Guidebook on
How to Play the Game of Love!
by Mimi Tanner, author of Calling Men
and
Man Mistake
Eraser
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Get"!
An open letter from writer Mimi Tanner:
Is it
"playing a game" with a man when you play hard to get?
Yes!
Playing hard to get is definitely one of the
games of love (as if you didn't know).
Now let me
ask you a question.
When did
games get such a bad name?
Everyone loves
games; from football to cards. Games are one of
life's chief methods of entertainment.
Why are
games okay when it comes to sports and backgammon, but
not okay when it comes to romance?
"Because
love is not a game!" some say. "How
DARE you encourage anyone to play games of the heart!!"
Not True! Love
IS a game - the most fun game ever invented - and it
has always been a game. You've been
involved, whether you knew it or not!
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 Hi - My name is
Mimi Tanner. Many people know me as the
author of:
"Calling
Men - The Complete Guide to Calling, Emailing, and
Texting the Men You Date"
"Secrets
of Flirting With Men"
"Man
Mistake Eraser - How to Regain a Man's Interest"
and other
writings. I have literally spent a lifetime
studying the subject of MEN - and WOMEN - everything
from flirting to attracting, chasing, being chased,
falling in love, and why men and women fall in love.
I know what it takes to win a man's heart, and to
win it back - and my advice has worked for literally
thousands of women who write me every day to tell me
about it. I hope you will read my daily email column
and find out why so many women have learned so much
about how to handle the men in their life - and even
marry their Mr. Right, too - when the time is right.
Some
people approach love with so many expectations and so
much seriousness, and yet they wonder why they have one
bad experience after another!
So the
first lesson in Hard To Get is to lighten up,
if you happen to be one of the Serious Sad Sacks who
expect your Prince to love you anyway, WARTS and all,
"for yourself" - right now, the right way, and
with no game playing whatsoever!
FACT
- if you're not playing the game of love, you're
missing out on all the fun - and so is the love of your
life! This is true whether you're single or you've been
married for thirty years. If you are in a
relationship, or you want to be in a relationship, then
you will be served best to get very, very good at the
game of love.
"But
Mimi, what about
"manipulation??"
Many
people are against the idea of playing hard to get. They
say it's wrong; it's manipulative; it's trickery of the
worst order.
First of
all, I'm here to show you exactly why that is NOT true.
Second, what
those people are really afraid of is that playing hard to get
will give you an "unfair advantage." And
you know what? It will.
Last time
I checked, all was still fair in love and war. I've got news for
you - great news, in fact:
There's
nothing wrong with playing games when it comes to love -
as long as your games are for the benefit of everyone
concerned - the benefit right now, and the benefit for
the rest of your life - the one you're going to spend
together because you're both so in love with each other.
Let the
games begin! And when you play the game of love, be sure
to play hard to get.
Be
Hard To Get - or Easy To Forget
Picture
this.
A man
meets a woman. He says, "You're a fine-looking
woman. I'd like to go out with you and in about a year,
we'll get married." She says, "Great!
Works for me."
What's
wrong with this picture?
Would you watch a movie if this were the plot? Of
course not!
Why not?
Because it would be BORING!
You
wouldn't read a book like that, either. In fact, any
book on love, whether it was published last week or 200
years ago - has more of a plot than that!
So why
would you want YOUR LOVE LIFE to be boring - when you
can create memories and have fun - and still be true
to your highest self?
Being
Hard To Get in the Right Way
So tell me
- how do men perceive you right now?
Are you
the girl next door? Are you his friend but you
want to be more?
Are you
the kind of woman a man loses sleep over, worrying about
whether he'll win your heart?
That same man who never calls you back is quite capable
of falling head over heels in love with a woman who
makes him feel an overwhelming desire to win her. This
happens even with guys who say they are "afraid of
commitment." Somehow when a certain kind of woman comes
along, these guys miraculously lose their fear of
commitment because they are so busy trying to get this
woman into their lives - determined, in fact.
But what does it take to become that kind of woman in
your man's life?
Hard To Get is a
private program, delivered to your email each month, which speaks
to the hearts of thousands of women. It's that kind of
program that women
love to own and generally don't tell the entire world
about it - but they devour the book privately and take
its principles to heart.
How do you
know when you have won his heart?
Perceived Value and the Scarcity Factor
One of the
great lessons of love is known as the scarcity factor.
Plain and simple: people tend to want what they cannot
have!
When things are hard to obtain, they seem more valuable
- to put it mildly.
What if
someone told you that you could buy a 2-year-old Jaguar
for $15,000. What would you think?
You'd
think that there must be something wrong with it. (And
you'd probably be right.)
When you
think of luxury items or designer clothing, what is the
number-one thing that sets them apart? Is it the
workmanship? The quality?
Perhaps -
but far more than that, it's the PRICE. That is
what gets your attention and makes it stand apart from
all the others - it costs more, and it's harder to
obtain. Fewer people will be able to get it - and if you
have it, it's clear that you must have had something
special in order to get it.
But
things are only as valuable as someone thinks.
And the more
rare
something is, the more people think it is worth.
I once searched high and low to find a special,
out-of-print book. It was written in the 1950's
and few people remembered it. I was thrilled to
finally find the book, and paid $150 over the internet
in order to obtain this rare copy.
Only a few weeks later, the very same book was given to me by
a public school librarian who was about to throw it out because no one had checked it
out in at least fifteen years.
Obviously some people think that book is valuable - or
the price would not have been so high - but for
others, it was gathering dust and needed to be
discarded.
It's called "perceived value."
How does this apply to relationships between men and
women?
It really starts on the inside.
If you value yourself, it will show, and others will
value you more, too.
If you value yourself, you will be focused on your own
goals and activities - and less focused every waking
minute on some guy. That automatically makes you
more hard to get.
What's the
opposite of hard to get? It's desperate.
Desperation repels others, and is revealed in a thousand
subtle ways - all of which you need to avoid like the
plague.
I get a lot of email from women who are
spending enormous amounts of time thinking about a guy
in their life, but who are not spending enormous amounts
of time adding value to their own lives by learning and
growing. That is the first step to becoming hard to get.
It's not about being self-absorbed or selfish - it's
really about self-respect. The greatest gift you have is
YOU. What you do with this gift will affect not only
you, but literally thousands of people.
Whether you believe it or not, you already have an
image. People
know you and are aware of you - your presence is known.
Your image is out there. You are somebody already.
Is that
somebody the kind of person who is sought after?
Start today to see yourself as the kind
of woman who makes men lose sleep thinking about you!
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What's "Hard To Get" All About?
Exactly How to Be Hard To Get
How To Work
With Human Nature Instead of Against It
Why You Shouldn't Act Like He's the One
Why Intensity Matters So Much
What Men Fear that Drives Them Away - and How To
Avoid It
The Chase - Why It Matters So Much to Both of You!
Ultimatums (why you'll never need one, and Plan B if you DO
need one)
The "Reverse Ultimatum" - You won't have to say a word to him!
Men Who Can't Say "I Love You"
Why You Should NEVER Initiate the "Serious Talk" With Any Man
and much, much more!
Here's a Peek at What You Get Immediately When You Order:
Class Two: Human Nature 101
It helps to work along with nature - instead of
trying to fight against it!
"Hard to Get" is a fundamental truth of human
nature. That is one of the themes we're talking
about in this class. "Hard to Get" is for the smart
woman who doesn't mind shaking things up!
Class Three: "How To Get Rid of the Other Woman"
(Piece of Cake!)
Here are the most effective ways to ward off the
other woman. Don't compete with her - handle her.
"Piece of Cake!"
Can you triumph over a female threat to your
relationship? Is there someone who intrudes on your
happy world with him? This month's class will
provide unforgettable ways to handle any woman
wishes YOUR man belonged to HER.
Class Four: "Beauty and the Frump" - and -
Maintaining Your Mystery with Men
We don't want to be loved for our looks or to lose
out to another woman because of looks. How to
understand how this fits in the puzzle of
relationships, and what is and isn't important. Then
in Part Two of this class, we talk about how to
enhance your confidence and make it easier than you
may have ever considered.
Class Five: The Pursuit of Love
How To Get Chased By Men
Men love pursuit - and pursuit must be difficult.
Class 5 is chock-full of advice on HOW to be pursued
by men, and why men love to pursue women. Men love
it when you make it difficult to win you.
You'll read about many ways to hold back so he can
come to you.
Class Six will be delivered to you in 30 days. Then
stay tuned for the Final Class: The Reverse
Ultimatum!
More from
"Hard To Get":
How to Get His Attention and get him to Chase
You!
Hard to Get is Human Nature 101
Why What He Works For Has More Value
"He Was Not Going To Let Me Get Away"
"Who wants to play games just to keep a man?"
Hard to Get is about self-control and confidence
How to get
comfortable on That Pedestal
"He started to behave differently."
When things are going so well - then everything changes
How to Get
Rid of the Other Woman - Piece of Cake!
Does a woman have to be hard to get forever?
Why the Best Men Love Women Who are Hard to Get
The Reverse Ultimatum!
And Much More!!
How The Class Works
1. Hard To
Get is a class currently sent to you in your email (for
a limited time).
2.
You will receive the first 5 classes as soon as
you order. That is where we are up to
right now - this is an ongoing class and it is
still in progress!
You'll get the next class
in 30 days. There are SEVEN classes in all.
This is an ongoing class and you are in the first
class!
3.
You
can print out and save each class.
4.
Look for a class in your email every 2 weeks! Start having fun finding
out how to make him work hard for your
attention!
Full One-Year Guarantee of Satisfaction
You have One Full Year to test out this material
and see the power you'll have over your love
life.
You'll love it, guaranteed, and it will work for
you - or you can return the material and get a
full refund.
Thousands of women (and men) read Mimi Tanner's
books and programs all over the world. They LOVE
the programs, and they LOVE the results they get
in their love lives!
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Classes 1, 2, 3, 4, and 5 are delivered to you
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Then, a class
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Hard to get does not mean impossible to get!
I'll show you how to enjoy "the chase" and how to be
in control of your love life and your future.
Being hard to get means you'll never have to
settle for less than the happiness you really
want. Discover how the chase will be
thrilling and memorable for both of you - with
love, respect, fun, and excitement.
Being hard to get means enhancing your mystery, no
matter how well he thinks he knows you!
Yes, love is a game. Let the games begin! And
when you play the game of love, be sure to play
hard to get!
With love,
Mimi Tanner
Author of
Calling Men,
Secrets
of Flirting with Men,
Man
Mistake Eraser and more
You
go Mimi! I hope these women "get"
what you are saying.
You are a potential life preserver for many,
Mimi.....I hope they grab the HUGE BUOY OF
INFORMATION you throw to them as they flail along
in the sea of relationships.......you offer them the
ways and means to preserve their precious life,
sanity, dignity and INTEGRITY!!!!!!
Fondly,
S. G.
Dear Mimi,
Wanted to give you a thanks for your amazing work.
I've purchased almost all of your programs, and
today I purchased your "man mistake eraser" guide.
I just want to say, from someone who's read
EVERYTHING there is to read about
dating/relationships,
nothing comes close to this!!!
Finally, a positive out look and an ANSWER on
what to ACTUALLY do instead of pages and pages of
junk! I'm a huge fan of yours and will continue to
support ANY of your work!
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How The Class Works
1. Hard To
Get is a class currently sent to you in your email (for
a limited time).
2.
You will receive the first 5 classes as soon as
you order. That is where we are up to
right now - this is an ongoing class and it is
still in progress!
You'll get the next class
in 30 days. There are SEVEN classes in all.
This is an ongoing class and you are in the first
class!
3.
You
can print out and save each class.
4.
Look for a class in your email every 30 days! Start having fun finding
out how to make him work hard for your
attention!
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